Or “i dont feel good with you. When a husband loves his wife and wants to enjoy intimacy with her, he will help her a little so she will have energy for sex. As a couple, how do we best steward this amazing gift that god has given to us? i’m going to speak to the husbands, and my wife, erin, will speak to the wives in a different article. It does ruin one fleshness of a married life and leads the marriage to be more like managing an office. This chapter outlines some of the major challenges to keeping passion alive in a marriage, especially when differences have divided couples.
You can’t reasonably force someone to have sex because you’re married and that’s where the issue of the woman needing to be tended to first comes in. I am an older woman but older men find me very attractive; i could cheat if i chose but i am faithful.